Cast/Baradri System In Islam????

[AQN]

Jo meanings main ne samjhaye hain....Aur jo meanings aap ne samjhaee...dono main actually baat yehi chuppi hai jo aap ne black main kahii...!!Hamaray deen ne hamain Uthtay Bethnay...Khanay peenay...Roz marrah ki zindagi k adaab tu sikhaaye hi hain....Lekin ikhlaq wo adab hai jis ka taluq hamari zaban aur hamaray expressions se hai....so...Ap ne actually yehi kaha tha jissay aap samajh kar bhi na samajh paaee...!!

ohh!! ............ thou of course I didn't say it this way ... per if u felt this way n I hurt u then am sorry.

I can't ever think ki us quote k wordings kisi ko aisa bhi feel kara saktey hein ... rahi baat meray burey Ikhlaaq ki tu chalein I have nothing to say about it.

cz meray nazdeek insan ka ikhlaaq doosron tak aap puhanch jata hey agar wo hey .. keh denay sey ki 'mera ikhlaaq behtar hey' koee faida nahi hota

[Alina]

"I can't ever think ki us quote k wordings kisi ko aisa bhi feel kara saktey hein "
Yeh Shayed aap ki Na-cheez Aqal ki gustakhi hogi...k wo aap ko aisi cheezain feel nahi karwati jo dosray feel kartay hain..Apna Nazariya Waseeh rakhay...!!
Ur sorry is not acceptable....Bcoz u still dont consider urself wrong....Infact MAin aap se maazrat chahti hon....Un gustakhana KAlmaat ki jin se ap ko laga k MAin ne aap k baaray main kuch keh daala....!!
the better thing is that not to dicuss further abt that topic...!!
Thanks For ur Coperation....!!

[Heer_Malik]

yea mostly tu nahi per sahi kaafi example aisi dekhnay ko milti ki shuru sey her cheez mey bachchey ki pasand .. uski her baat maan lee .. aur aisi ahum baat pey itney rigid hojaatey k pata nahi kiya maaang liya bachchey ney : )

jee sahi kertein hein ... her wo baat jo kaafi had tak sahi aur reasonable ho tu hum sab ko hi koshish kerni chahiyey k koee bilawaja sirf kisi ki zid ki bhaent na chadhey ...

thou hamarey yahan koee is qism ki itni azaadi nahi ..like bohat zeyada real life mey opposite gender sey mix up hona nahi .. both for bros n us (gals) .. neither we do ki koee bhi ghar aasakata ya kisi k saath bhi jaa saktey .. n all tht ... per shaadi k maamley mey my parents are ALHAMDOLILAH quite more felxible ... even jitna hona bhi nahi chahiyey : ) as my father says bas Kalma go ho .. baqi insan aagey peechay change ho hi jaata hey agar muhabbat sey rahey n all that ...

meray bro ki love marriage hey tu jab wo baat huee tu we all were ok ki theek if its like this tu sirf is baat ko issue nahi banana k us ney Khud kaisey pasand ker lee ... even kaafi kuch aisa tha jo hamari family k lehaaz sey sahi nahi tha .. but all done without any fuss ... n ALHAMDOLILAH we lives together ...

I think jab parents compromise ker k khushi khushi aulaad ki pasand apnaatey hein tu uskey back mind mey ye baat aik ehsaan ki tarah yaad rehti hey ... aur phir aaney wali zindagi mey wo uska qarz her mumkin tareeqay sey utaarney ki koshish kerta hey ...
like agar koee baat unch neech ho tu agar arranged marriage hogee tu banda (beta) thoda ignorant hojaata hey .. per in love case wo conscious rehta aisi cheezo ko ley k k kaheen baat ye na aajey ki see tumhaari pasand hey na tu ye kharabhi n all that. at least I feel this way : ) what u say?

ji app nay bilkul sahi kaha.... aesa hi hota hay........

per mujhay lagta hay kay aesa hona nahi chahiye..........zindagi main agar agay chal kar agar bachay ka faisla ghalat sabat ho tau parents ko usay tanna nahi daina chahiye balkay us ki himmat banna chahiye kyonke wo khud aik buray phase say guzar raha hota hay.....

per hamaray yahan aesa hota nahi, parents achi khasi bisti karte hain bachay ki k wo bichara buri tarah toot jata hay.... aur agar us kay apnay spuse say halat sudhrne bhi hn tau wo sudhrne ki bajaye mazeed kharab ho jatay hain.....

Yaar parctical life main aa kar pata chalta hay kay kon sa rishta kitnay pani main hay....

[AQN]

ji app nay bilkul sahi kaha.... aesa hi hota hay........

per mujhay lagta hay kay aesa hona nahi chahiye..........zindagi main agar agay chal kar agar bachay ka faisla ghalat sabat ho tau parents ko usay tanna nahi daina chahiye balkay us ki himmat banna chahiye kyonke wo khud aik buray phase say guzar raha hota hay.....

per hamaray yahan aesa hota nahi, parents achi khasi bisti karte hain bachay ki k wo bichara buri tarah toot jata hay.... aur agar us kay apnay spuse say halat sudhrne bhi hn tau wo sudhrne ki bajaye mazeed kharab ho jatay hain.....

Yaar parctical life main aa kar pata chalta hay kay kon sa rishta kitnay pani main hay....

yea ... ye baat tu her mauqey pey hi saadiq aati ... sirf shaadi nahi @ kuch ghalat ho tu taana na maarein ..

kisi ka qaul hey' "Love your child Most when s/he deserves the Least"

yani jis waqt us ney kuch aisa kiya ya us sey kuch aisa huwa ki wo kuch daant dapat (tana n na pasandeedgi in extreme case) desrve kerta ho tu tab iskey bajaey usey muhabbat do aur piyar ka rasta istemaal karo uski islah k leye ya ehsaas dilaaney aur naadim honey k leye apni ghalati per ...

mujhey kaafi pasand aaee thi ye baat jab me padhi : ) ... I think agar sirf parents-child relation k eelwa bhi aur relations (like life partners) mey isko implement karein tu her rishta bohat mazboot hojaey ga .. hey na! : ) khair kuch log waqee aisey hotey bhi hein

per the bad thing is ki her achchi cheez thodi na paed aur mushkil hoti hey real mey hona : ( ..........

[AQN]

"I can't ever think ki us quote k wordings kisi ko aisa bhi feel kara saktey hein "
Yeh Shayed aap ki Na-cheez Aqal ki gustakhi hogi...k wo aap ko aisi cheezain feel nahi karwati jo dosray feel kartay hain..Apna Nazariya Waseeh rakhay...!!
Ur sorry is not acceptable....Bcoz u still dont consider urself wrong....Infact MAin aap se maazrat chahti hon....Un gustakhana KAlmaat ki jin se ap ko laga k MAin ne aap k baaray main kuch keh daala....!!
the better thing is that not to dicuss further abt that topic...!!
Thanks For ur Coperation....!!

thou baat aap ney bhi wohi kee jis reason pey mera sorry Na qabil-e-qabool aap k leye : ) ... per khair wo aap ki soch n merzi ...

aap ney chunki Muaa'zrat kee is msg mey tu mujhey laga ki ethically I should response ... so it's alright ... aap ki muaazrat qabool mujhey cz meray leye aap ka itna keh dena bhi kaafi hey ...

soch wasee ho na ho meri per ALHAMDOLILAH dil itna wasee zaroor hey

God bless u (Aameen Summa Aameen)
ALLAH HAFIZ

[Heer_Malik]

yea ... ye baat tu her mauqey pey hi saadiq aati ... sirf shaadi nahi @ kuch ghalat ho tu taana na maarein ..

kisi ka qaul hey' "Love your child Most when s/he deserves the Least"

yani jis waqt us ney kuch aisa kiya ya us sey kuch aisa huwa ki wo kuch daant dapat (tana n na pasandeedgi in extreme case) desrve kerta ho tu tab iskey bajaey usey muhabbat do aur piyar ka rasta istemaal karo uski islah k leye ya ehsaas dilaaney aur naadim honey k leye apni ghalati per ...

mujhey kaafi pasand aaee thi ye baat jab me padhi : ) ... I think agar sirf parents-child relation k eelwa bhi aur relations (like life partners) mey isko implement karein tu her rishta bohat mazboot hojaey ga .. hey na! : ) khair kuch log waqee aisey hotey bhi hein

per the bad thing is ki her achchi cheez thodi na paed aur mushkil hoti hey real mey hona : ( ..........

Haan bht hi achi quation hay yeh... bilkul aesa hi karna chahiye....

chalain koi baat nahi AQN.... hamaray saath jo hona tha wo ho gaya, per aub ain hum ahad karain kay jiss nasal ko hum parwan charhain gain us k saath atleast yeh sab nahi honay dain gain, aik achi, samjhdar aur ba shaoor nasal ko parwan dain gain, and i hope kay anay wali nasal bht behter ho gi, Inshallah

[AQN]

Haan bht hi achi quation hay yeh... bilkul aesa hi karna chahiye....

chalain koi baat nahi AQN.... hamaray saath jo hona tha wo ho gaya, per aub ain hum ahad karain kay jiss nasal ko hum parwan charhain gain us k saath atleast yeh sab nahi honay dain gain, aik achi, samjhdar aur ba shaoor nasal ko parwan dain gain, and i hope kay anay wali nasal bht behter ho gi, Inshallah

Bingo ............... : )

ye ahad tu kaafi pehlay ker chuki : ) ........... ki her wo baat jo khud ney khahish ki apney badon ki taraf sey ... aur wo baatein jinko ley k khud tu suffer nahi kiya per apney irg gird logon ko dekha zaroor hey ... un sab baatoon ko wo nasal face na karey jo hamarey zer-e-terbiyat hon ... ya jahan hum kuch kernay key qabil hon

so INSHALLAH apni tu poori koshish hogee baqi jo ALLAH ko manzoor : )

[Heer_Malik]

Bingo ............... : )

ye ahad tu kaafi pehlay ker chuki : ) ........... ki her wo baat jo khud ney khahish ki apney badon ki taraf sey ... aur wo baatein jinko ley k khud tu suffer nahi kiya per apney irg gird logon ko dekha zaroor hey ... un sab baatoon ko wo nasal face na karey jo hamarey zer-e-terbiyat hon ... ya jahan hum kuch kernay key qabil hon

so INSHALLAH apni tu poori koshish hogee baqi jo ALLAH ko manzoor : )

Allah hamain apni is koshish main kaamyaab kare, Ameen Sum Ameen

[AQN]

Allah hamain apni is koshish main kaamyaab kare, Ameen Sum Ameen

Aameen Summa Aameen .......... : )

[Alina]

thou baat aap ney bhi wohi kee jis reason pey mera sorry Na qabil-e-qabool aap k leye : ) ... per khair wo aap ki soch n merzi ...

aap ney chunki Muaa'zrat kee is msg mey tu mujhey laga ki ethically I should response ... so it's alright ... aap ki muaazrat qabool mujhey cz meray leye aap ka itna keh dena bhi kaafi hey ...

soch wasee ho na ho meri per ALHAMDOLILAH dil itna wasee zaroor hey

God bless u (Aameen Summa Aameen)
ALLAH HAFIZ

Ohhh Gr8888888......
Han jis tarah shuru se Akhir tak aap ne apni khoobiyaan bataee hain...Ham kaafi Achi tarah aap ko Jaan Gaye hain =)
Allah aap ki hidayat farmaaye...Ameen
Allah Hafiz...!!